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Many sex myths can inhibit sexual pleasure. By understanding these sex myths, you will learn to explore your own sexuality and your partner. You can also learn how to be a good lover on one hand, and on the other hand enhance your sex education in sexual intercourse.

Many sex myths have a religious basis. While others believe that sex is only for procreation (a descendant). Also many are not aware of anyone affected by a negative impression about sex are implanted to him since they were children. Does any of these sex myths bother you?

1. Sex is dirty.

People who do not use the term ‘dirty’ sexual pleasure was often regarded as something shameful.

2. Sex should be natural and spontaneous.

The view that sex education is not required has caused men and women to believe that there is something wrong if they want to learn new techniques and find better ways to give and receive pleasure. Sex education indeed makes your sex life better.

3. Sex is an intercourse.

In the West, oral and manual stimulation called ‘foreplay’ and not sex unless the penis is inserted into the vagina. This narrow view of sexuality cause many couples stop having sex at the point where sexual intercourse is not possible.

4. Sex is the responsibility of man.

Many women expect men to ask her out, looking for more money, and take responsibility to initiate sex and give her an orgasm. The thought of it severely limits the male and female.

5. Men are always ready and wanting sex.

Men never expected to say ‘no’ or never left the mood when dealing with women. And of course women can not show warmth or interest unless he wants sex because men are unable to control himself.

6. Sex requires an erection.

A man can give and receive pleasure without getting an erection. Sexual intercourse can be done in a semi-erection. Some sex education can give you directions.

7. Sex should end up with the orgasm.

Most women are not lying when I said can enjoy the romance, although not reaching orgasm. When men get older, they can also make love without orgasm or ejaculation.

8. Women who like sex is promiscuous.

The public does not trust woman who enjoys sexual intercourse. They will be called a ‘slut’. While women who are not interested in sex or hard to reach orgasm is seen as ‘cold as snow’.

The term “virgin” comes from the Latin virgo or a girl, a virgin. This term also has close links with the term Virga, which means new, young twigs or branches that are not shaped. Virginity, this term sounds so blunt and vulgar. When someone asks or mentions “You are a virgin or not”, it is indeed a statement or question that will bother you. However, forget about this.

Let’s see some views about virginity. In some parts of the world, the concept of virginity has the meaning of each.

- There is a culture that considers a woman who is not married is still a virgin, even though she was a prostitute. Only when she was a married woman she is considered to lose his virginity. Although for many years a woman becomes a prostitute, when she got married she is treated as a virgin, dressed in white, and showing himself in front of her husband with so innocent and pure.

- At the other world, a married woman without children is a virgin. Virginity is lost only when the first child born through the vaginal canal.Virginity is not lost because of having sex, but by becoming a mother. So every woman with no children, although often having sex, she is still a virgin.

- Among people who are afraid of the myth of blood on the first night, the blood has a long story and quite a negative connotation. A man would marry a woman only after her hymen broken by having sex with a stranger. Employment of foreigners is considered difficult, and men who do so will be considered brave because he accept the danger of contacting with blood.

- A married woman whose virginity was taken by a guardian means to prove to her husband that he was more pure and more virgin than ever before. Therefore having sex with her guardian is not harmful.

- A woman in the Western world would still be considered a virgin until she had sexual intercourse, oral or anal sex with men, either she is a single or married woman. And that we still hold to this day. Even in the middle east.

If the definition of virginity may sound confusing and absurd for us with this story, the term we use to name virginity will invite wry smile. We may be wondering, what does it mean to question a woman’s virginity.

Using sex toys will surely be a seasoning itself in ritual sex until you feel not boring. One of sex aids is the most popular vibrator, at least for couples in the United States.

This is revealed by two surveys conducted by researchers from Indiana University, USA. In a survey conducted by Dr. Debra Herbenick and his team to the 2056 women aged 18-60 years revealed, 52.5 percent of women using vibrators.

The majority of users in the form of vibrators Sex Aids are claiming they have not been using sex toys such as vibrators. One in four respondents to wear last month.
After using sex aids, they admitted more easily aroused and excited, the vagina is more lubricated, easy to reach orgasm, and felt no pain during penetration. In addition, 71.5 percent of respondents said that did not experience side effects associated with use of a vibrator.

Not much different from the women, a survey conducted by Dr. Michele Reece and his team to the 1047 men aged 18-60 years who also revealed that the majority of men (44.8 percent) had used a vibrator for sexual intercourse, either alone or with a partner.

“Men who use sex toys such as vibrators, especially those that have not been wearing it long, usually aims to improve the health of her sexual organs, such as checking the health of the testes,” says Reece.

Men vibrator users also claim to feel more passionate and more satisfied with sexual intercourse and orgasm compared with men who did not use a vibrator.

“It is also widely used vibrator men, something that had never known before,” says Reece.

In a report published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, researchers stated that the use of sex toys such as vibrators have a positive impact on health and sexual satisfaction, especially fishing arousal and orgasm.